Children and the Law Of Attraction, Meeting Resistance

Children and the Law Of Attraction

Meeting Resistance

Take a piece of notebook paper and place one title for each of the following areas we have covered on the top of each page.

Giving unlimited, unconditional love.

Creating a positive environment for your child.

Looking at the audio, visual, and verbal input you are allowing.

Teaching your child about living a life of love and acceptance of the self.

Omitting negative words, especially the words don’t, not, and no.

Turning negative desire statements into positive desire statements.

Playing the, don’t, not, and no game.

Asking the question, “So, what do you want?”

You receive what you ask for, words = thoughts = vibes = results.

Finding the positive in all situations.

Gratitude journaling.

Contrast and what you DO want.

Title each page with one of the above. These pages will now become your journal page guides. Think about how many times you have done each one and what changes, or results you experienced. Note specific events and what was said and done. It will be useful in the future to have these notes to review. You can even date the event. This will give you a time frame as things change, and you will be able to go back in a few weeks, months, or a year and read how things “used to be!”

Resistance

Sometimes when we are trying to make positive changes we will encounter resistance. Resistance can be anything from a child who will not listen to you when you try to explain how things work best, to a child seeming to purposely oppose your directions and suggestions. This is common and nothing to worry about as long as you continue to show leadership and consistency. Here is an example of a true event.

Mary has four children. Her oldest daughter, Sarah, has been listening to Mary talk about the Law Of Attraction for several months but a few weeks back Sarah started acting very rude to everyone including Mary. When Mary asked Sarah to assist in a chore, Sarah simply walked away from her as if not to hear the request. In addition to that, Sarah started saying “no” to Mary. Sarah also started picking on her younger siblings and saying mean things. After discussing the situation with her husband, Mary asked Sarah to tell her what had been happening at school. After a bit of hesitation Sarah finally said her “friends” had started being rude and mean to her at school, which was upsetting her. After several minutes of conversation, Mary pointed out to Sarah how the Law Of Attraction was giving her back what she was putting out. Sarah was starting to experience the negativity she had been showing towards her family members. "You are getting what you are sending out. You are being mean, causing arguments, ignoring my requests, and now that is what is happing to you." Mary said, “I have explained how things that we do come back to us because that is what we are vibrating. Instead of being nice, helpful, and polite, you have chosen to do otherwise. You should think about the things you enjoy in a friend, and be specific. Think about what it is you DO want. Think of the best qualities your good friends have and put them on a list. These are the things you will want to find in a friend. Take a few days to make your list, and then read it everyday. You will start meeting people who have those fine qualities and begin to make new, positive, friendships.”

This is a perfect example of how things work. We get what we vibrate, and we have the gift of choice. We get to choose what we are going to do and say. When we make the choice to become negative, we will attract negativity. When we choose to become positive, we will attract positive.

Continue to be positive with your children, and they will learn to be positive. When they begin to show negativity you can remind them that the choices we make will affect what we receive. Remain calm when you receive resistance and chose your words carefully. Remember that you are their primary example, and keep your journals going.

Have fun!

With much Love,

Yolanda