Children and the Law Of Attraction, Practice makes Perfect

Children and the Law Of Attraction

Practice makes Perfect

Over the last two weeks, I have talked about two of the most important aspects of the Law Of Attraction. The law states what you give your time, energy, and focus to you will receive whether positive or negative. Yes, that is correct. Positive or negative, you will receive what you vibrate. A vibration is a feeling, and we all have feelings. In fact, at every moment we are experiencing a feeling, which is sending off a vibration. The job for the universe is to match your vibration.

Words  =  Thoughts  =  Feelings  =  Results

Words  =  Thoughts  =  Vibrations  =  Results

The first week’s challenge was to look differently at the role you play as a parent, and to say something positive to your child each and every day. I recently had a conversation with my sister. Our children are adults, but I wanted to share this for the positive view that is so important in everything we do and say. My sister told me that she was upset with her daughter for running over an orange road cone. Because she ran over the cone, it became lodged under her car and she had to call a friend for assistance. While removing the cone, her friend realized her water pump was leaking. He told her she should ask her dad to fix it for her. I told my sister that it was actually a blessing that she ran over the cone. Because of that, the leak in the water pump was found before there was serious trouble which could have landed her daughter stranded in a much more dangerous situation. Thinking of the value of this situation, and seeing the positive, my sister’s attitude changed, and the vibration she gave off from this way of thinking about the situation became a positive instead of negative.

Journaling

Have you ever kept a diary, or tried journaling? Keeping a gratitude journal will help you to start realizing the positive things that are taking place in your life on a daily basis. You could start a journal with your children. Ask them to tell you something that they are grateful for that day. Changing our perspective changes our feelings, and if we can change the negative to positive, then write about it, we will be sending positive vibes out into the universe, which will then create more positive situations returned to us. Another thing journaling does is it gives us time to reflect on ourselves. Changing our thoughts isn’t always easy. If someone is used to always seeing or hearing the negative, it will take practice to find the positive.

Putting positive actions and words into practice, feeling love for others and ourselves, letting go of the negative, feeling open to receiving all we desire, and journaling our gratitude will assist you in teaching the Law Of Attraction to your children. You will become their primary example and teacher. They will find self-love, gratitude, become optimistic, be happy, and share their good feelings with others. Being optimistic does not mean we do not see reality. It means we realize that we were meant to be happy. Share some happiness with your children on a daily basis. Get them involved in thinking and speaking positive.

Contrast and the Law Of Attraction

How do we learn to present our desire statements in a positive way? Knowing what you do not want will tell you what you DO want. In the past, I would to refer to the negative things as “things I hated, or didn’t like, or I would even say why does this have to happen?” I have since learned that having things that are not what we want, teaches us what exactly we do want. My first LOA teacher, Michael Losier, teaches that you don’t call the pizza parlor and tell them what you don’t want right? When you call to place an order, you tell them what it is you do want.

How do you know what it is you don’t want? Well, if it doesn’t make you feel good, if it doesn’t taste good, if it doesn’t sound good, then you know you don’t want it right? The “don’t wants” are contrast. By having contrast in our lives, we learn what it is that we truly DO want!

I prefer to avoid conflict, so I surround myself with positive like-minded people. I keep myself in a positive frame of mind, and allow others to have their own opinions without having to insist that I am correct, regardless of the topic. I listen to music that is relaxing, or uplifting. I watch videos about LOA, or positive spiritual advise. I create an environment that supports the lifestyle I wish to live. It’s that simple. Did it take time, energy, and focus to get here? Yes. Does it take nurturing, care, and attention on a daily basis? Yes it does. Is it worth it? Yes, it is!

Creating your Contrast List

Take a piece of paper and divide it in half long ways. On one side you will write the things you don’t want. Take time and think of how you can reframe what it is that you do want, and write it on the opposite side. This will become your contrast sheet, and it will help you to start thinking in a positive uplifting way of the things you do want in your life. Here is an example:

I don’t want to be late for work.     I am always on time for my job.

I don’t want my home messy.       I enjoy living in a neat clean environment.

I don’t have enough money.          I always have more than enough money.

My children always fight.                My children are well behaved.

Try this at home with your children. Create your positive desire statements using your contrast sheet, and read the positive statements daily. Have fun, be creative, and you will begin to see a change in your children and your lifestyle.

With much Love,

Yolanda